About

Meet Karianne

Karianne J.E. Boer (1978) is a leading international expert on dating, selection intelligence and relationships.

She specializes in helping strong, successful women break through the patterns that they repeat and that do not deliver them the result they want and only make them tired of dating. She helps her clients achieve their goal of a healthy relationship by doing less effort.

Karianne appears in widely read Dutch-speaking media like Goed Gevoel, Flair, Het Nieuwsblad and De Morgen.

Her clientele includes lawyers, psychologists, consultants, police leaders, professors, business owners, C-level professionals, bankers and members of affluent families.

Drawing from multidisciplinary training and her professional experience, she developed a simple, science-based and fun method to help women find a committed relationship. Until now, 83% of her clients attract a partner in 2-12 weeks.

Karianne has a multidisciplinary background in humanities (MA, MSc, CertPhil) and studied in Belgium (KUL, Solvay), Spain and the UK (Oxford). She has been professionally coaching groups for the past 15 years and mentoring women on love for the past 7 years.

She serves her clients in three languages (Dutch, French, English) and is learning two more (Spanish and German).

On a personal note, Karianne is a proud mother to three wonderful children. A former ice skating champion and karateka, today, she practices swimming and BODYPUMP at her fitness club.


Love Mentor


Having survived a challenging childhood and having struggled with love, dating and relationships for over a decade, she went to the mesmerizing island of La Palma in 2009. Being at the lowest point in her life, she sat down on a rock a few feet away from the abyss.

Suddenly, she experienced an intense feeling of serenity like she never felt had before. She realized that life was worth living and that she needed to transform her thoughts and actions to stop suffering and start winning in love and life! Her approach worked for friends, too.

While Karianne and her friends were able to end dating drama, Karianne still observed too many women around her suffering from broken hearts, desperation or giving up their love lives. She visited Spain again, but this time she went to Málaga with a business mentor. She became aware that she was destined for a calling to help other women transform. She left a steady career in law enforcement to become an entrepreneur and found a love school for women (Singles Academy).

Today, her mission is to end global dating drama and help build healthy relationships.

Karianne loves the Chinese proverb: ‘Give a (wo)man a fish and (s)he will eat for a day. Teach a (wo)man how to fish and you feed him (her) for a lifetime.’ In a similar vein, she believes that if women who struggle with love learn how to date smarter, they can be happy for a lifetime.

She rejects ‘text-your-ex-back’ or ‘give-him-a-compliment’ or other superficial tactics. Instead, she shares guidelines, expert insights and empowers women to find their own way. She is straightforward and may joke, sing or give a kick in the ass. Clients always leave her sessions feeling empowered and knowing what to do. Check here what some mentees have to say about working with her (scroll to middle of page).


Spillover Effect


Before reaching out to Karianne, clients are confident women at work, but feel insecure, confused, disappointed, afraid, and sometimes desperate in love. After they have worked with her, they feel confident in dating, energetic, self-compassionate, calm and no longer in doubt if they receive mixed signals. And they stop wasting time on the wrong men.

There is a spillover effect, too. Clients get promotions and make more money.

Karianne’s record is helping a woman who lacked love for her entire life (5 decades). She helped her client break toxic patterns and created an irresistible yet authentic dating profile for her. She taught her date-smarter-not-harder strategies. All of this helped her client not only to find a loving man but she was also promoted twice at work. Her Facebook review can be found here.


Free Masterclass


Dating drama may look like this:

  • You can not find interesting men.
  • You come across as too ‘intimidating’.
  • Guys send you mixed signals.
  • Doubt: ‘Is he serious about me?’
  • Men suddenly disappear on you.
  • You keep picking the wrong man.
  • You lack self-confidence in love.
  • Toxic lovers are hard for you to let go.
  • You suffer from dating fatigue.
  • Love is an emotional roller coaster.
  • Your standards are perfectionistic.

Does the above sound like your life?

You are not alone.

The bad news is that dating drama wastes your time and drains your energy. The good news is that attracting your soulmate is simply an art you can learn. Karianne and her clients did.

So can you.

Does this resonate with you?

Join her free masterclass on how to find love. It will be launched soon. Fill out the form to receive her newsletter for updates on her class and inspiration in dating, love and relationships.